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If you are currently
being abused.
Are you here as a result of someone hitting
or threatening you-a spouse, boyfriend, lover, relative or
someone you know? Have you been sexually abused by someone
you know? As you read this, you may be feeling confused, frightened,
sad, angry or ashamed. You are not alone! Unfortunately,
what happened to you is very common. Domestic violence does
not go away on its own. It tends to get worse and more frequent
with time. There are people who can help you. If you want
to begin talking about the problem, need a safe place to stay
or want legal advice-call one of the agencies listed on the
back of this instruction sheet today.
While still at the
healthcare provider's office.
- Think about whether it is safe to return home. If not,
call one of the resources listed on the back of this instruction
sheet or stay with a friend or relative.
- You have received instructions on caring for your injuries
and taking medications prescribed. Remember, if you have
received tranquilizers they may help you rest but they won't
solve the problem of battering.
- Battering is a crime and you have the right to legal
intervention. You should consider calling the police for
assistance (see information on back of this sheet). You
may also obtain a court order prohibiting your partner from
contacting you in any way (including in person or by phone).
Contact a local DV program or an attorney for more information.
- Ask the doctor or nurse to take photos of your injuries
to become part of your medical record.
When you get home.
- Develop an "exit plan" in advance for you and your children.
Know exactly where you could go even in the middle of the
night-and how to get there.
- Pack an "overnight bag" in case you have to leave home
in a hurry. Either hide it yourself or give it to a friend
to keep for you.
- Pack toilet articles, medications, an extra set of keys
to the house and car, an extra set of clothing for you and
your children, and a toy for each child.
- Have extra cash, loose change for phone calls, checkbook,
or savings account book hidden or with a friend.
- Pack important papers and financial records (the originals
or copies), such as social security cards, birth certificates,
green cards, passports, work authorization and any other
immigration documents, voter registration cards, medical
cards and records, drivers license, rent receipts, title
to the car and proof of insurance, etc.
- Notify your neighbors if you think it is safe.
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